Wednesday 15 January 2014

Letting Go of Baggages

Can't see your-SELF anymore because of unwanted baggage(s)?
By time, we realize that life is a lesson we chose to tackle ourselves. 
We realize that even family members are our backing actors, then come friends and supposedly 'loved' ones whom we meet and leave after learning our lessons together.
This seems painful at times but utterly necessary.


I remember feeling alien to this world since early childhood and what is more weird, felt my parents were not my real parents...hmm, what a way to start a life's journey.  Imagine how your mother would feel being told that you don't think she's your real mother.

Then we tackle our in bedded belief systems, maybe carried forward from another life...and while we are struggling with these, we are writing our life definitions which at some future point we will correct and rewrite.

Life is a play, in which we were told by society to see it as a never ending struggle to make ends meet. 
Like an actress seeing her act as her life at that particular moment, focusing on it, while forgetting the fact that it will only be an addition to her CV of profession.

Friends and people, as well as circumstances, will remain with you as long as you need to understand the lessons. 
That is why it is important to throw away your unwanted luggage full of beliefs and definitions which do not serve you anymore...or even blocking you.

With those unwanted baggage, thrown away, along goes the pack of friends that insist the baggage is valid to be carried around.  
That's why friendships/relationships do not last long when they don't grow together. 
Forgiving those who choose to hold on to obsolete ideals is a path to growing.  
Forgiving yourself who chooses to let go of those ideals along with networks associated with it, shows your soul's maturity. 

Let go....a phrase many have said, but often not understood.

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