Are You Clinging Onto an Outdated System?

It's easy to write positive motivational things and affirmations to repeat daily. There are many “gurus” out there on the internet offering re-packaged 'solution' and I must say that most of them are done NOT out of compassion (to say it plain and simple) but out of business mentality to suck $$$ from the person who is already feeling wretched.

It is very easy and most charming when people start posting these quotations around.  Yes, indeed, it is easy to write these things and even believe in them when you've got a job, can pay your bills, feed your family, when you've been treated fairly, haven't been the victim of horrific physical, emotional, and verbal abuse from others.

But if you HAVE been a victim of any of those things, these motivational affirmations and quotes seem...well...unrealistic and unimportant.  Hard to feel gratitude and "Dance!" when you can't even buy food.

There is much to say about this.
First thing is that having all the positive things in life does not mean one is happy and satisfied.  It does not mean one is free from many other deep fears and concerns.

The second thing is that this reasoning is outdated and void.  The main problem is that many still cling to this type of beliefs and definitions and as we say, knowing that you do not know is the beginning of wisdom.
Why do many still cling to their outdated comfort zone?
Why do they prefer to stay in there and not move on?
The answer is that they are not yet ready, not yet spiritually strong enough to move.

It is only by breaking loose of the many religious and traditional belief systems that we start to ask about life.
It is only when we start to become aware of the interplay of life and so called ‘death’ that we awaken.
Then we will realize the play and roles we all choose to play here in this life and that it is OK.
Then it will dawn on us that the ones whom we call miserable and wretched—according to the outdated belief system—are the ones really who are spiritually strong.
They are the ones teaching others about compassion and love.

Therefore, the opus is not on the poor and wretched ones but on the well to do person who needs to learn how to share and have compassion.
Missing this lesson, the person must repeat it until he/she gets it.  The wretched person, on the other hand, could have chosen that life to learn too and more importantly, to show others what they lack in their hearts, that is love and compassion.

Be Happy

Be happy because that is what you came here for.
Being happy and feeling gratitude is what strengthens the connection with the Source…with your Higher Self.

You are your own guru.

For much of our lives, we have been told what do, how to think, what looks good, what "success" is. 

You don't have to buy into any of it. 

Stop copying others because each of us has a different story to tell…and believe it or not, all are good. 

Feel free to peel back the layers. 

Think for yourself. 

Break the mold. 

Leave behind unwanted baggage and start eliminating false belief systems that are outdated, that don't work for you anymore. 

Re-define your definitions…from mechanical physics we have stepped into Quantum physics…and there is more…our consciousness is infinite.

Therefore, be happy. 

Stop doing what everybody else wants you to do and start following your own intuition.

The result is: 

you will be ridiculously happy.

We don't Change or Heal others

I now know that no one has the power to change others.

We only have the power to change ourselves.

By that, our perspective changes.

Then other people will change.

But only if.....
they really want to change themselves.

So the definition of changing others is... only through changing oneself.

The Writings on Our Walls

I remember singing with mum the song " Everybody wants to go to heaven, but nobody wants to die" and we would laugh...

There is so much suffering in life, being unloved or rejected is the main one. 

Terminal Sickness and then those who miss their loved ones who passed away. 

This is all part of life.

The worst that can happen to us is to die.

That for me calls for a celebration. 

I would be free from all pain and sadness.

U N L I M I T E D.

Able to meet my soul group and would still be connected to the loved ones down here, while  having the understanding of the game called LIFE.

There is only LOVE and LIGHT.  That is how we are supposed to relate with others.  All other things like jobs and money are only props in this role-play.

I feel so grateful for many things. 

When I am grateful for each breath that I take and for each heart beat, what more can I ask for?

When I am grateful for who I AM and my state of Being-ness, what more do I look for?

I feel this inner compassion for the suffering of others...for their fears...born from ignorance. 

This sounds like a bit of an ego from my side but you know what I mean. 

The belief systems that people have and to which they fight for to safeguard...the writings on their inner walls...traditions...religions...family rituals and beliefs, etc.

Even though we know this is all a play, a script each of us wrote, still I feel compassion for the suffering. maybe I shouldn't, I know. 

Even though I know we choose our life and our sufferings and that it is only a playing act, still I feel compassion.

I feel I am helpless that I want to send them vibes...light and Love and yet it all depends on them really, like it all depends on me as well to be happy and healthy. 

All is illusion and writing this I am feeling Billy Fingers here with me telling me it is all a play within a play...so? Do we do nothing?

Letting Go of Baggages

Can't see your-SELF anymore because of unwanted baggage(s)?

By time, we realize that life is a lesson we chose to tackle ourselves. 
We realize that even family members are our backing actors, then come friends and supposedly 'loved' ones whom we meet and leave after learning our lessons together.
This seems painful at times but utterly necessary.

I remember feeling alien to this world since early childhood and what is more weird, felt my parents were not my real parents...hmm, what a way to start a life's journey.  Imagine how your mother would feel being told that you don't think she's your real mother.

Then we tackle our in bedded belief systems, maybe carried forward from another life...and while we are struggling with these, we are writing our life definitions which at some future point we will correct and rewrite.

Life is a play, in which we were told by society to see it as a never ending struggle to make ends meet. 

Like an actress seeing her act as her life at that particular moment, focusing on it, while forgetting the fact that it will only be an addition to her CV of profession.

Friends and people, as well as circumstances, will remain with you as long as you need to understand the lessons. 

That is why it is important to throw away your unwanted luggage full of beliefs and definitions which do not serve you anymore...or even blocking you.

With those unwanted baggage, thrown away, along goes the pack of friends that insist the baggage is valid to be carried around.  

That's why friendships/relationships do not last long when they don't grow together. 

Forgiving those who choose to hold on to obsolete ideals is a path to growing.  

Forgiving yourself who chooses to let go of those ideals along with networks associated with it, shows your soul's maturity. 

Let go....a phrase many have said, but often not understood.